Jo Hyun Jae

TAURUS

Symbol: The Bull
Ruling Planet: Venus
Quality: Fixed
Element: Earth
Basic Trait: I Have
Closest Metal: Copper
Lucky Day: Friday
Lucky Colors: Pastel Shades
Lucky Gems: Lapis Lazuli and Sapphires
Lucky Flowers: Daffodils and Daisies

You push him somewhat and he becomes stubborn. Still trying to make him budge, beware of the violent temper. A Taurus person is hardly impulsive and never gets angry without a reason. In fact, he has perfect control over his emotions. However, when a Taurus does get angry, it is better not to get in the way or you are bound to get trampled. The anger also takes time to come down. He is quite attracted to the opposite sex, but attracting people to himself seems more preferable to him.

One of the typical personality traits of a Taurus is passivity. You can count on him to be there when you need him, but he will never be the one to call on you. At the same time, he will know ‘what to do’ and ‘how to do it’. Worrying, fretting or getting nervous is definitely not one of Taurus characteristics. It is in his nature to be stable and stoic. He takes his decisions slowly, after careful considerations. Taurus people love their home and change upsets them. Don’t tell a Taurus that he’s stubborn; he’ll never believe it. He thinks himself to be patient, not obstinate.

A Taurus has this amazing quality of bearing emotional and physical pain, even for years, without grieving or complaining. The more the troubles come pouring in, the stronger he will come out to be. A Taurus is nothing if not loyal and dedicated to his family and friends. He has a good appetite and loves food and drinks. He has a funny bone too; it’s just that he prefers broad and slapstick comedy to subtle humor. Taurus are hardly cruel. At the same time, they are seldom broke. Sooner or later, the money will come to them.

A Taurus is not stingy and his pockets, along with his heart, are always open to friends and family. He loves grandeur and he is deeply interested in the various forms of art. Music usually has a very special place in his life. The ideas of a Taurus are always sensible as well as practical. He is not the one to build castles out of air. Synonymous with lasting love, Taurus people are not prone to wandering. They love luxury, but detest waste and extravagance. Last but not least, they are dependable, strong, patient and trustworthy.

(Source: http://www.iloveindia.com/astrology/sun-signs/taurus/index.html)

Well, do you see Jo Hyun-Jae in the above description? Is he a typical Taurus? Or maybe the characters he plays? What do you say?

(Credit: photo by Param of carpediemJapan. Thanks!)

I’ll continue with my rundown of JHJ fans. I’m sure all those I’ve met are quaking in their high heels, fearing it will be their turn next. It will take me some time to run through the alphabets.

“C” is a take-charge, hands-on person. She too has her own website. All these “Masters” like to be masters, or rather, mistresses (but it doesn’t sound the same.) I have a mind of my own, and I do not like to be ordered around. But in the JHJ world, your credentials, your education, your experience do not count. The only thing that matters is your length of “fanship” (I think I just coined a word.) Compared to “C”, I’m a kindergartner. She has very definite ideas about how the presents should be wrapped. She’d brought all the wrapping paper, ribbons, labels, cards, etc. These are for JHJ; those are for the fan clubs. She is a perfectionist in her own way (and so am I.) We spent all night wrapping presents before the fan meeting. I thought to myself: “What the heck am I doing?” “C” is a strong personality and the others defer to her, so what can I do? She’s not really a bad sort; she is genuinely devoted to JHJ. She would always stand in the front; she likes to be the centre of attention. I hide at the back (even then I once saw myself on YOUTUBE in a JHJ video and I almost fainted!) So there is no conflict between Big Sister “C” and me. The only thing I don’t like about “C” is: she keeps sending JHJ chocolates. If he becomes “fat”, you know who is to blame!

“D” is somebody I met last year in Korea, another “Master”. She gave me her business card and I wrote to her several months later because I needed her help. I wasn’t sure if she would respond but she did. Since then I’ve met her a couple of times in Seoul. Like all JHJ fans I’ve had the privilege of knowing, “D” is super-efficient and very helpful. The only problem is: we have difficulty in communicating in spoken English (her written English is fine.) Sometimes I cannot understand her and she cannot understand me (even though I speak in simple phrases.) For example, when I use the word “army”, as in “JHJ is now in the army”, she has no clue what I’m talking about. I discover that she uses the word “military”, so “JHJ is now in the military” works. But guess what? We manage to have a very pleasant two-hour lunch and we finally find a way to communicate — in written Chinese! Her Chinese is surprisingly good, so we scribble back and forth, and she gives me some inside information about JHJ.

Korean fans are very respectful and thoughtful; they would never do anything to embarrass or inconvenience their idol. I ask her something about JHJ and “D” says JHJ never mentions this and they would never dream of intruding on his privacy. In my latest meeting with “D”, she reveals some things about Korean fans that really surprise me. Korean fans are very shy, so shy that they do not even let their families know they like JHJ. They have to hide their JHJ souvenirs and only admire them in secret in the privacy of their own bedrooms. Only unmarried fans can take part in events like celebration of JHJ’s birthday because the others have to be with their families. (This year May 9 falls on a Saturday.) I think it’s a good thing they have their priorities right. Family should of course come first. JHJ’s family is the most important thing to him; he has reiterated this several times in the course of interviews.

I have always been most impressed by the way the Korean fans treat their star — with great respect and infinite consideration. JHJ once says that his fans are as shy and low-key as he is, so much so that when they visit him on set, he has no idea they are his fans until someone tells him. They just stand quietly at the back; they do not ask for autographs or to pose for photographs with him. They seem content simply to be in his presence. And of course they send him presents for his birthday, Christmas, Valentine’s Day, and every festival and occasion under the sun. Now that he is in the army, they take extra care of him by sending things like skin-care products, toiletries (all brand names), phone cards (so he can call his family and friends), the latest magazines, a basketball (because JHJ says in a message he plays basketball with his camp-mates on weekends), even insect repellent! (among a host of other things.) They really think of everything. I do not need to mention all the snacks and other goodies that are always included for JHJ’s camp-mates. I understand that when a Korean man enters the army, it is a custom for his family to send food and other presents to his fellow soldiers on special occasions. Since JHJ is a star, it is expected that his camp-mates will benefit from the largesse of his fans. A Chinese fan once said to me she could not understand why the Korean fans are doing this; she thinks this is not the function or duty of fans. This is a cultural difference between Chinese and Korean fans, I guess. For my part, I feel very moved whenever I see what the Korean fans have done for JHJ. And I am sure JHJ would be moved too.

(TO BE CONTINUED)

“A” is the very first super JHJ fan that I met. She is very well-known in the JHJ world. She has her own JHJ website and she has uploaded countless JHJ videos on the internet. I had arranged to meet her to deliver my application form for membership (to another fan club. Strange?) We were supposed to meet in front of Mrs.Field’s Cookies in a MTR station. I’d never been in that part of town, so I set off early to make sure I wasn’t late. As it was, I was 15 minutes early and she was 45 minutes late. So there I was, pacing back and forth, scrutinising every cookie with extra care, until I could memorise their price and shape and texture. We’d exchanged 3 or 4 calls and she still hadn’t shown. If it hadn’t been for JHJ, I wouldn’t have suffered this. I’m an on-time freak — I hate people for being late, and especially for blaming it on the traffic. It shows a lack of respect: I’m just not important enough for them to come at the agreed time. I was about to decide I’d been stood up when along came flying this BIG bulk which, before I had time to react, gave me a bear hug and screamed my name. I forgave her at once when she said she went home to get the JHJ magazines to show to me. She did come armed with a whole cache of JHJ goodies. For the next three hours we sat at a restaurant talking about JHJ. The people at the next table must think we’re two crazy women, chatting non-stop and occasionally “screaming” (beneath our breath) whenever we came across a specially handsome picture of him in the magazines “A” brought.

“A” is a really dedicated JHJ super fan. She spends most of her waking moments scouring the internet for news of JHJ. She never sleeps (I know because I shared a hotel room with her in Japan for three nights.) She is tireless in networking in the daytime and posting articles on her website at night. She has a certain childlike quality about her that is very endearing. Her love for JHJ is so overwhelming that she neglects her own health in pursuit of his information. I have to tell her that JHJ cares about his fans and he wouldn’t want her to suffer on his behalf. She is generous to a fault, but she is also sometimes generous with facts and figures. She tells me she is many things that she is not, but she does not know I know. We all live in our dream world, and I do not have the heart to rouse her from her sweet slumber. As long as she is happy, she has a right to indulge herself.

“B” is the one who introduces me to “A”, but now, sadly, they are no longer talking to one another. I don’t know what really happened between them, or their two websites, because I heard two different versions. “B” is very smart, very sharp, very witty, a sensible, no-nonsense person whom I liked before I even saw her. We met at a Korean restaurant (what else?) in another city. I was a little early, and as soon as she sat down, we started blabbing (for three hours.) It is very strange: JHJ fans need no introduction; we recognize each other as soon as we see each other, even without the “red rose”. (You know how strangers in novels rendezvous? They carry a red rose as the emblem.)

“B” is a fast talker; her mind works very rapidly. Good thing I could keep up. It’s fun hearing her talk about JHJ whom she met the year before. Even though I’d read this on her website before, listening to her tell it in person is much more vivid. I envy her so much for having the good fortune to be up close and personal with JHJ. “B” is a warm-hearted person and she is generous with her help where JHJ is concerned. I find that JHJ fans give a lot of their time and energy and even money unstintingly on his behalf. I have never been a fan of anyone’s before, so I don’t know how these things work. But I am quite convinced JHJ fans are more generous and giving than most.

In their different ways, both “A” and “B” love JHJ. In their own way, they are both serving JHJ. I think if they join forces, they can do a lot more for JHJ. I offer to be the bridge, so they can be reconciled, but I am told by “B” that their prejudices are too deep and their views are too divergent. It is a pity that they have gone their separate ways. They choose to be rivals instead of allies. Why is it that JHJ who is so low-profile and placid should inspire such competition and conflict in his fans? I suspect they want to monopolise him for themselves. Not me, though. My motto is: “Sharing is caring.”

(TO BE CONTINUED)

We are loyal fans of Mr. Jo Hyun Jae and we are writing to you to appeal for more news and photos of him.

Ever since Mr. Jo entered the army in August 2008, there has been very little news and only a few messages from him. Except for a couple of photos released while he was in training, there has been nothing.

We cannot read Korean or Japanese, so our source of news is even more scant. We know the Korean fan clubs CAFE and EVER are doing a good job. What we don’t understand is this: Why is the Official Jo Hyun Jae Fan Club in Japan? Do you know how difficult it is to join this official fan club if you are not Japanese? Almost impossible! Don’t you want more people to join this official fan club?

You must realize Mr. Jo is no longer just a Korean actor — he has transcended Korea. He has become an international star. Do you know how popular he is in South-East Asia (not to mention China)? (in the Philippines, Thailand, Vietnam, Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia, etc.) Do you know how frustrating it is for fans there not to be able to understand what’s going on? Mr. Jo has also conquered North America and even parts of Europe and Central Asia. These fans can only read English, but there is hardly any website that caters for them.

And when we try to fill that void, we find our hands are tied. We cannot share what we read on the Official JHJ Fan Club website with our readers. Why don’t you release the photos taken on his birthday to the Korean fan clubs? Why don’t you allow the photos to be made public? What is the harm of letting fans see the latest photos? Everybody is dying for a glimpse of Mr. Jo. Do you think you are protecting him? We are sure you know the English saying: “Out of sight, out of mind.” Fans are very fickle and handsome young actors emerge on the Korean entertainment scene every day. Fans switch loyalties if they are not satisfied. There are still more than 390 days to go. How do you expect to keep the fans?

Apparently only members of the Official JHJ Fan Club who have paid the membership fee are allowed to see the photos. Then what about the MANY, MANY MORE fans all over the world who care about Mr. Jo but who are not, cannot be, or do not want to be members? Are you in effect saying to them they do not count? This is not fair: Mr. Jo belongs to all of us, not just to a few thousand fan club members.

Apart from the photos, there are the CDs, DVDs, calendars, photo albums, etc. — Mr. Jo’s souvenirs. They can only be obtained through the Korean or Japanese fan clubs. If you have no connections, too bad. Doesn’t it make more business sense to sell these publicly, say, on the internet? In that case, even overseas fans can buy them online. Don’t you think they will sell better this way? We have heard complaints from fans who find the hurdles too much. As Mr. Jo’s management company, shouldn’t you make it easier for his fans?

We are sure you are planning something special for Mr. Jo when he finishes his military duties. How he returns to the Korean entertainment scene is very important: whether he can make a career breakthrough after a two-year hiatus. He needs a good role, a good script. So many of his fans are waiting; so many people will be watching. We are counting on you to ensure that Mr. Jo’s future will be even more splendid than his past or present.

Meanwhile, we appeal to you to bear in mind our interests. Everything is global now, including your superstar. For the sake of all Mr. Jo’s fans, in any part of the world, please feed us as much information and news as possible in these lean times, so we won’t starve to death while waiting for him to return from the army. Thank you!

Yours sincerely,
M & M
(representing the silent majority)

P.S. Our editor is in Los Angeles at the moment and she has just reported that “Seo Dong Yo” is showing on a Vietnamese TV channel, dubbed in Vietnamese with Chinese subtitles. Isn’t that great? Doesn’t that prove to you just how far-reaching Jo Hyun Jae’s popularity is among different peoples all over the world?

If you’re a daily visitor to our blog, you might be wondering why there was no new post yesterday (5/20/09).

Could it be:

1. We’ve run out of ideas, so nothing more to write about.

2. Our blog has run into some problems.

3. Editor is in the air (incommunicado).

4. We’re on strike (in protest).

Answer: ALL of the above

(not really 1. — we still have plenty to write about JHJ, but we’re suffering from temporary mental fatigue.)

Recently something happened that made us very unhappy. And disclosing it here might make us disappear from the world of JHJ, as someone put it. Now we’re not afraid because: 1. we don’t buckle under pressure, and 2. JHJ is in our hearts, so there’s no way we can lose one another.

Our blog has been in existence for exactly 100 days. If you’ve watched a lot of Korean dramas, you’ll know young lovers like to celebrate their 100 days together. (I suppose 100 days is a long time in a relationship nowadays.) We’re celebrating our first 100 days in a special way (no cakes or flowers, sorry!) by declaring our Manifesto — why and how we manage our blog — our raison d’etre (reason for existence).

My blog partner M and I are ordinary JHJ fans. We have no fan club as our base. We are just a two-women team. In the normal course of things, we would have gone to our separate graves never crossing paths (since we live in different parts of the world.) But because of JHJ we’ve met. Our shared love for JHJ makes us want to do something for him, for those fans of his who can read only English, so more people will get to know him — because he deserves it. Now I’m a shy person (and so is M) who would always stand at the back in a group photo (unlike JHJ who says in a Q & A that he usually stands in the centre) [See our earlier post "Everything you want to know about JHJ (and much, much more)"]. Sometimes you don’t see me at all because everybody is taller than me; other times I get pushed to the front. What I’m trying to say is: If it hadn’t been for JHJ, wild horses could not have dragged me out of my “retirement”. It’s all M’s fault, she said: “Why don’t we start our own fan club?” (since we don’t quite fit in the others.) “M & M?” I replied, “No, thanks! I don’t like crowds. Solitaire is my favourite game.”

We then considered starting a blog. With a blog we don’t have to see anybody, or deal with anybody (we thought.) A strange phenomenon in today’s world is — every other person has his/her own blog, even though sometimes even they themselves don’t know what they’re blabbing about. Just as some people love the sound of their own voice, others love to see themselves in print (especially if they are unpublished writers who think they deserve better.) We knew nothing about how to start a blog. In January when I was in the U.S., I asked my brother who is an amateur photographer and who has a website. He said it’s easy; all you have to do is pay for one. I was busy with other things, so this was relegated to the back of my mind.

The day before I left the U.S., my brother called to ask if I had a Google account, and then, almost as an afterthought, “What’s the name of that Korean actor?” Half an hour later he called again when I was vacuuming (almost didn’t hear the call) and said: “OK, I’ve registered a blog for you. Free and very user-friendly. Just go in and play around with it………and oh! BTW, found a good-looking photo of the chap and posted it on your blog.” It wasn’t until late afternoon that I had time to access my blog for the first time. One look and I almost had a heart attack! I found myself staring at a photo of Jo Hyun-Jae in military uniform (from the press conference of “G.P.506″) and underneath it, the caption: “South Korea promotes JHJ to Lieutenant-General”. I felt like murdering my brother! He was a naughty little boy and now he’s a mischievous middle-aged man. I called his home at once; his wife said he’s out walking the dog. I called his cell phone but there was no answer. (He’d left his phone at home.) I was in a panic. I was scared this could get JHJ in trouble. I am near-computer-illiterate. I had never even been in a blog. I clicked everything in sight, and after what seemed an eternity, the caption disappeared (and so did the photo.) I wasn’t sure if my blog was still there. Then my brother called. I gave him a piece of my mind in no uncertain terms. (He’s my younger brother.) He said: “What’s the big deal? Who believes anything on the internet?” I said: “Some people might. You don’t joke about military business. JHJ is only Private Second Class and you’ve promoted him to Lieutenant-General!”

I am actually very grateful to my brother for registering this blog for me. If it hadn’t been for him, I wouldn’t be writing this now. If you’ve ever wondered why our blog is called “Jo-Hyun-Jae”, that’s because “Jo Hyun Jae” was already taken. My brother has lived in the west for the greater part of his life, and he has no idea Korean surnames come first (like Chinese surnames.) He does not know which is which, whether JO or JAE is the last name, so to be safe he just hyphens everything. Only recently did I learn who owns “Jo Hyun Jae”, and she’s not even using it. I suppose “What’s mine is mine, so nobody else can have it.” I don’t understand such mentality.

The blog remained empty for a few weeks until, on a lark, M and I decided to go to JHJ’s photo exhibition in Osaka in February. We garnered plenty of first-hand material, so we decided to launch our blog with “We spent Valentine’s Day with JHJ”. Writing comes easily to me; I just write what is in my heart. What you see is what you get. My partner M is a near-computer-genius (compared to me.) She is also a good writer (though she doesn’t know it.) We make a perfect team. So there we were scribbling away, working hard to build up our blog, learning something new every day, immersed in the world of JHJ (but we do have a life of our own; we’re experts at multi-tasking.) We would be on cloud nine whenever we discover a new Follower, read a new comment, or receive a new e-mail. Someone suggests we add a new feature to register the number of hits on our blog each day. What for? Even if we are the only two people reading our blog, we would still carry on (for as long as we can.) Now M and I are both people of high esteem but no ego. We’re not doing this for fame or fortune — we don’t need the first and we have enough of the second (we lead very simple lives; we’re very low-maintenance.)

We’re very happy every day locating news of JHJ, translating them into English, choosing the pictures to go with them, and writing on our own favourite topics. Even before JHJ’s birthday on May 9, anticipation was in the air — everybody was expecting his new photos. Except for one photo of JHJ and his camp-mates, released during his first weeks of training, there has been nothing for nine months. On one of his rare days out, JHJ gave us a photo of his military uniform. What a wry sense of humour! He must know that Chinese saying: “Seeing his things makes you think of that person.” When he was on leave in late April, JHJ did not leave a message for his fans, so expectation was really boiling over.

Then on the evening of May 13, our Japanese “spy” (she’s a darling!) sent me an URGENT e-mail: “Go to JHJ FC RIGHT NOW! Pics out!” There he was! Three gorgeous photos of JHJ in his military uniform. I frantically SKYPE(d) M and we immediately got to work. Now I’d like to state categorically that we’re not in the habit of lifting anything from the Official JHJ Fan Club website (which is not exactly a treasure trove.) But this is special! Everybody has been so looking forward to these photos. Every JHJ fan wants to know what he looks like now. M and I discussed it for ten minutes and decided to stick our necks out. The photos and report were posted on the official website at 6:30 p.m., and we posted ours at 8 p.m.

Almost immediately the responses poured in. JHJ fans were all so happy to see him looking so fit and healthy — “every inch a soldier”, as one put it. We were very gratified we made the day (or night) of so many JHJ fans. I must confess to one oversight, however — in our excitement and eagerness, we forgot to add: “For copyright reasons, please do not reproduce or transfer photos.” (which we did first thing the next morning.)

Our elation was short-lived — the next morning we were taken to task! We were told we should not have posted the photos, that anything on the official website was for members only. I immediately wrote to the Official Fan Club for clarification, twice, in fact. I asked if we’re allowed to post their photos and news on our blog.* I don’t remember signing anything when we enrolled, but then we didn’t register online (like other members.) We did it in person at the JHJ photo exhibition in Osaka in February. (Read about this in our first post “We spent Valentine’s Day with JHJ (Part 1)”.) All we had to do was give our personal particulars, and the fan club staff on site took care of the paperwork (or rather, computer work.) We immediately checked the small print of the Official Fan Club website, and sure enough, there’s a clause that says (in standard legalese) reports and photos may not be reproduced without permission. (Of course it’s in Japanese, and we can’t even read Japanese! Thank God for translation gadgets!) Then why is it that we see these so-called “exclusive” photos occasionally appearing in various JHJ websites in the last several months?

Now we are law-abiding citizens — we respect intellectual property; we do not infringe copyright. One of our readers suggested we upload the OST of JHJ’s dramas and we replied we could not do that. I know you can find songs from JHJ’s CD on the web, but don’t ask me how they got there. I was worried. I wanted to consult our in-house counsel (my son, Ha!Ha!) who’s unfortunately in another time zone and it’s the middle of the night where he is. I checked the official website again and (shock!) found the photos GONE! (Later, the report was also deleted.) Gosh! What have we done? I immediately removed our post on the latest JHJ photos (just to be on the safe side.) Our post was on for only about 16 hours, but (Oh! the power of the internet!) those JHJ photos have already been transferred all over the place. The reaction from JHJ fans everywhere was the same — everybody was happy to see him looking so well.

It’s been seven days since our blog removed those JHJ photos, but they are still on display on several JHJ websites, some openly, some restricted (to their fan club members.) The reason given for not publishing those photos was JHJ’s interest must be protected. (We have no quarrel with that.) Unscrupulous people could use his image for illegal purposes, that is, producing souvenirs without paying JHJ royalties. Now I wonder whether the manufacturers of those JHJ souvenirs we bought in Seoul on our recent visit paid royalties to JHJ or his management company Star n Hit. That singing cup with the tune of “Like the wind by your side”, the posters, the mouse pads, the calendars, the mugs, etc. etc., even the umbrella — everything that uses his image — Is JHJ being ripped off?

Apparently it all boils down to one thing — If you want to see JHJ, pay. Become a member of the Official JHJ Fan Club and you can get the latest news (extremely scant) and photos (first new ones in several months.) Quite a few people I know wanted to join but could not get past the hurdles. Why do they make it so difficult for non-Japanese? Don’t they want more people to join? If we had not been so persistent in Osaka, we would not have made it either. From the number on our membership cards, we know roughly how many members they have, but we’re not telling. Has anyone ever wondered why the official fan club of a Korean actor is in Japan? We have our theory, but we’re not sharing.

Now regarding other websites’ practice of “saving” these photos for their own paying members, what can I say? We paid a fee to join the Japan Official JHJ Fan Club. We found these photos. (Yes, we had a scoop; we were the first!) We shared them with JHJ fans all over the world. And we have become persona non grata. We commit the “crime”; they enjoy the spoils. Other people take “our” photos and made them their own and are raking in the profits. You take a photo from the internet, crop off the original name and put your own label, and it becomes yours? These photos belong to the Official JHJ Fan Club, but the photos I took at the JHJ photo exhibition in Osaka received the same treatment. We found them circulating on the internet with some other websites’ name stamped on them. We may be new kids on the block but we’re not born yesterday. Such things are just not kosher, if you know this expression.

We’re thoroughly disillusioned (Read: seething mad! but we have to maintain our dignity), just not enough to throw in the towel. What keep us going are the e-mails and messages we receive from JHJ fans from Canada, U.S.A., England, Austria, Germany, Japan, Korea, China, Taiwan, Hong Kong, Singapore, Malaysia, Philippines, Thailand, Vietnam, Myanmar, Indonesia…….and counting. We may be just a new blog on a Korean actor, but we take the high road. We create most of our material, instead of just recycling. Our articles are original, not translations from the Korean fan clubs. We write from the heart; we don’t just churn out mediocre stuff. We don’t allow anybody to post anything. We exercise editorial control and we maintain high standards. We welcome contributions, but we have a strict screening process — we accept only the best. You don’t have to be able to write flawless English (we can fix that), but your heart has to be in the right place. We only issue one or two posts a day (except when there is breaking news); we believe in quality, not quantity. We operate by professional journalistic standards: we double-check (even triple-check) our sources before we put out any news. Some websites are copying our themes and topics (without any acknowledgement.) Since “imitation is the sincerest form of flattery”, we must be doing something right.

We are on good terms with the various fan clubs (actually we don’t know that many; we don’t socialize.) We don’t get involved in fan club politics. All of the JHJ fans we’ve met are really nice people, all working tirelessly on his behalf. If they cannot get along (turf war? personality conflict?) it’s none of our business. We don’t ally ourselves with anybody; we are free agents. We just do our own thing. We work independently; we are beholden to no one (except JHJ.)

JHJ has given us so much joy in our otherwise boring lives that we just want to share the joy, to spread his dream in the sky (as he puts it in his song.) At the end of “A Frozen Flower” (Did you read my review on May 14?) when they are both mortally wounded, the King asks Hong Lim: “Tell me: Have you ever loved me? if only for one day, one moment?” I ask you now: “Did you miss us? (yesterday when we’re off), if only for one instant?”

* We received a reply from the Official JHJ Fan Club on May 18, confirming photos and such may not be posted anywhere else.

P.S. New JHJ photos and a video were posted on the Official JHJ Fan Club website on May 18, and another 3 videos on May 19 and the last video on May 20. Are we sharing this time? Nah! Once bitten, twice shy.

What prompts me to write now is something I read today about some fans of Rain trying to raise some cash to help him. They are being attacked as morons on the internet. A lot of people have a lot of opinions, mostly negative. As I was reading, I started wondering: “What if it were Jo Hyun-Jae who is in trouble? Would you help him?” And then I came upon this comment: “Jo Hyun-Jae would never get himself into this kind of jam!” and a bomb just went off in my head!

Such self-righteousness! Such a holier-than-thou attitude! You think Rain is a fool? He made a mistake, and he was probably ill-advised. Contract disputes are nothing new. Rain should have sought legal advice in the U.S. before he decided to put in a no-show. And now there are at least 3 or 4 lawsuits of similar nature against him pending. Still, it’s only money; I mean it’s something that money can solve.

Now to return to my earlier peeve. This is a free country. If you don’t want to do something, nobody can make you do it. But you have no right to call other people names who want to do something that you disapprove of. I believe in freedom of speech, but there is such a thing as human decency and decorum. If some girl(s) want to contribute something to help Rain, what business is it of yours? Just because you don’t do such “silly” things makes you morally superior?

Now if it were Jo Hyun-Jae who needs help, would you, as a fan, try to help? How do you show you care? Just by posting “I love you!” every day? Someone else says the best way to be a fan is to appreciate the star’s works. Well, the star’s career, his whole future, is in jeopardy, and you just stay glued to the tube? This little incident reveals so much about human nature. Somehow some people just revel in others’ misfortunes. While not helping themselves, they denigrate those who do. In this way, they think they can show that they are wise and above-the-fray.

Most people think star-chasers are silly girls who have nothing better to do. Maybe. But is this any worse than men who chase after female stars? men of means who can afford to “monopolise” them as mistresses? Fans only worship from afar; they don’t seek possession. JHJ fans, especially the Koreans and Japanese, are very caring and considerate people. You can tell from the presents they send him — they take care of all his needs, very maternal and nurturing. When they visit him on set, they don’t even ask for his autograph or to pose for photographs with him. They are so quiet and unassuming that JHJ once said he didn’t even know they’re his fans until someone told him. But of course a certain kind of actor attracts a certain kind of fans.

Now if JHJ, for whatever reasons, finds himself in hot waters, wouldn’t you, as a fan, try to help? Would you help a friend in need? Help comes in many forms; giving money is the easiest way. So if some fans of Rain want to contribute something to helping him, even if it is only a drop in the ocean, don’t call them morons just because you do not have the largeness of heart and generosity of spirit. Any gesture made out of affection should not be ridiculed. If you try to understand instead of condemn, human beings of different colours, creeds, cultures, etc. may be able to live in peace and the world will be a better place.

We often hear of famous people changing the lives of others they have touched in one way or another.

Has your life changed in any way ever since you became a Jo Hyun-Jae fan?

At the very least, it should have become less boring (like mine), much happier (again like mine), fuller? better? busier? more meaningful? more constructive? more creative? more fun? etc., etc.
Would you like to share your experience with us?